The lack of playing time is one of toughest and hottest issues for coaches, players, parents and administrators to deal with. Friction often arises.
No parent wants to go through the embarrasment and humiliation of having their child sit the bench. Most parents first instinct is to protect their child. The parent will usually want to speak to the coaches in order to persuade them to put their kid in the game more often.
Coaches: It can be a struggle to keep the players and the parents happy. Players and parents can become frustrated, agitated and angry when sitting the bench.
Players: Not many players like to be a bench warmer. It can be embarrassing to some players among their peers. Also, it can become boring. Parents will usually stop most or all their athletic praise for their player.
Parents: Naturally, parents want to instinctively protect their own kids from their perceived injustice, unfairness or embarrassment. They want to step in and ‘fix’ the inequities.
Administrators: Often the parents will go over the coach’s head and bring you into the picture. You will be asked to be the mediator to find some middle ground. Tough job but you better be ready because the majority of your parent issues will be around playing time.
Bottom Line: Good players do not sit the bench too long. Coaches rarely sit good players. If you are sitting a lot then you are not one of the top players.
Suggestion: Coaches, try to find a spot to get your entire roster in the games. Sacrifice your win-at-all-cost ego. Look for opportunities to let your players show their stuff.
Below the high school varsity baseball level player development should always trump winning games. Try to work in as many players as possible.
The best players end up playing the most. The players that can handle the baseball the best will play the most. Players who can play the ball handling positions most consistently will find themselves in the lineup more often.
Here are a few of my suggested tips to work out the playing issue. You are never going to keep everyone happy all the time.
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What should a ballplayer do to help their cause? Besides being a good player their are many opportunities to contribute to a ballclub and better your chances of playing more often. I can't guarantee playing time amounts but chances are better if you follow my suggestions...
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I have a great list of suggested help tips for the baseball parents. Moms and dads get frustrated when little Charley sits the bench, rides the pine, or bats once and plays the field an inning. Parents, you can play a big role in helping your kids play more baseball.
Here are a couple of examples of what I provide in the products I have produced.
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